Tuesday, October 16, 2007

"Dying" to "Strip"














so i decided to strip the bottom half of my hair so that i can dye it red. it turned out a bit more pinkish but i love it.
here's what it looks like. i'm almost tempted to dye all of it this color but i won't. i like to be different.


just so ya'll know, i had to strip my hair three times in the course of three days to get it as light as i could for this bright color. the color was "intense red" by soft sheen carson and was the brightest that i could find. my mom was not pleased. i dyed it after she went to work (she works the night shift as an LPN).

i mostly did this because i was going to this "Grown ~N~ Sexii" themed party that friday (the 12th) and i thought it would be hott to dye it for the party. i got three compliments: i barely been there for 20 minutes and this 28 y/o dude complimented my hair. i don't know if he liked the color or my dreads in general, but that don't matter. we exchanged numbers and danced together for most of the night. this other chick complimented me and said that my hair was fabulous. and my newly married friend took a picture of the back of my head. lol










this was my hair for the party.

Friday, September 28, 2007

New and Improved locs!


nah, i ain't start over. lol...that pic ain't nothin. i just like it.

after a while, i just thought things over, and i'm gonna go back to my old ways of D.I.Y. cheleski inspired me so much more and gave me the initiative to just get my hands dirty.

like i said in my previous posts, i went to a locitian (not mine. it was my sister's salon actually) to see if she offered that practice at her salon and she provided me with no help whatsoever (i was actually being lazy by tryna see if someone else could do it but her visit gave me the needed boost to start doing my own cultivation more often). i was extremely turned off by her attitude. she kept telling me that sewing locs together was not advisable and that it wouldn't be cylindrical but rather, flat. and she kept motioning to her own locs sayin "these are locs" and implying that if i did sew them they would no longer be locks. she also said that from the weight as my babies grow, i would no longer have locs cuz they would fall out. the way i figured is that if i latched mines, they would remain strong (like sisterlocks and i've seen some pretty healthy SLs). but i had been having complications as of late with it and always having to snip the root cuz i may have latched some together. so that's why i'm at the salon more now to let them get back to normal. but she really was not any help.

another thing she had said was that by me joining them together at the roots and letting them hang would create a bigger problem for me in the future. all the things she was telling me really didn't add up. why is it that i see plenty of ppl doing things to their locks (sewing, combining sealed locks, etc) and their locks thrive? and then i have this woman telling me its all BS? come on. and she was contradicting herself. as i was tryna hit the door to get out of that place, she suggested that i get them wrapped or add loc extensions. then she said she wouldn't advise on that.

THEN WHY SUGGEST IT?

so i took things into my own hands...thanks cheleski!

before i went to the loctician from H*LL, i had combined all my locs at the roots.




i realized that by me keeping the ends out and rockin a whole bunch of two headed dragons would not fare well in the long run, mostly bcz i interlock the roots as my main type of maintenance. i also wasn't down with the fact that i would have a lot of locs but it just didn't add up when you got to the roots.





So about a week or so later (go by the dates on the camera), i spent the ENTIRE night picking out about half an inch to a full inch of the ends of my locs and twisting the combined locs together and letting the ends curl up.




this was something i wanted to do anyways because i love lisa bonet's locs and how the ends just curl up the way they do. but this was the perfect opportunity. i also didn't want to sew together locks with sealed ends.







by me just twisting them and leaving them be was not a good idea either (i was tryin everything so i didn't have to resort to sewing bcz i was nervous about doing something i wasn't entirely sure about).
see the curls??? :)















these two used to be four. :)

So then about two days later, i decided that i would stop thinking so much (because the more i thought about it the less likely chance of me not going thru with it) and i would just jump in and DO IT! (think nike lol). i got out the black thread and went to work. took me literally all night to do it. i started wednesday night at around 8 and finished about 730 the next morning (thursday).








i was so pissed because i wasn't even halfway done and i ran out of black thread so i had to use the dark green thread. its all good though. i now have thick locs that i love.



i don't even like green.





but i was real serious bout getting this done bcz my salon maintenance was on thursday, the 27th. but now that everything is said and done, i'm happy that i did this. i will probably continue my salon visits until the end of the year and then go back to doing them myself, only going to the salon for special occasions and whatnot. but i may go every three months or every other month. it depends on the cash flow.



that stupid dryer was hot as heck. the salon had did renovations and turned the front of the salon into like a mini store with clothes and handbags and whatnot. my stylists chair was in the front of the shop so they moved him to the second floor by himself and it was hot up there enough as it is and the dryer didn't make it no better. you can sense the pain in my face. LOL
















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Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Nothin' New...

I'm a much avid poster on Fotki. So if ya'll want some updates or some more pictures, come to my three fotki accounts.

www.fotki.com/blaqbeauti
www.fotki.com/blaqbeauti2
www.fotki.com/blaqbeauti3

the most recent posts are at blaqbeauti3 but to see the beginning, go to the first one.

but i'll put some pics up here soon. nothing new is going on except for the fact that i did combine my locs at the roots and i'm just gonna keep them twisted to the ends. i'm not expecting them to fuse together (although i have heard success stories in this regard) but i just need for my roots to be thicker.

the only problem is that when i went to a salon (other than my own) to see about getting the extending locs sewn together the woman just about went into a tangent about how unhealthy it is for your locs and that even though i'm trying to remedy one problem by combining the roots, i'm creating another problem because the locs that are already loced will not fuse together and that it will cause weakness or something. i stopped listening to her at one point because i didn't like her demeanor and attitude and she kept tryin to tell me how she been in the business for 40 years and how she wouldn't tell me something that wouldn't benefit me in the end, and that's all well and good, but i asked one simple question, and not a book. i just had to get out of there.

for now, i'll just keep the ends twisted together and when i go back to the salon on the 28th, i'll ask them for their opinion.

one thing she did tell me though that sounded appealing was to get loc extensions on my locs but how then again she wouldn't advise that i take that course either.

THEN WHY SUGGEST IT?

she told me it would be too costly, yada yada yada. i couldn't even get a question in and whatnot. it was just aggravating.

anyhow, like i said, i'll figure something out. if any of you ladies have any suggestions, please help. thanks...

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Why Are Mother's so Wishy Washy?

I'm still tryna figure my mama out. Sometimes I don't understand her thinking process.

She's call me from her job bcz she is at work on break, and as usual, I'm sittin around doin nothin. So we just have our usual conversation, and I tell her that one of my friends was planning a trip down to NC from Sept. 17th to Sept. 25th to see some of his friends. He was gettin six of us to go and one of the six is my my best friend, whom I am going on a cruise with in December (I'll get to that in a second). So gonna freak out, talkin bout she don't want me to go and we'll have to talk about it...I'm tryna handle the situation as an adult but this doesn't add up.

How is she gonna let me go OUT OF COUNTRY for 8 days, but is skeptical to let me go to NC, which is definitely a part of the US, and is for 9 days? It really doesn't make sense.

My mother is always like that. I'll do one thing, and then when I do something similar or the same thing again, she has a problem with it, especially when she knew about it the first time. She has expressed concern about the cruise but the fact of the matter is is that I'm still going (truthfully I'm not too thrilled to be going but thinking about it, I desperately need a vacation [I get two weeks vaca that I'm lookin forward to]).

I just had to vent.

Thursday, August 2, 2007

Nine Month Anniversary [August 02, 2007]

This is my first official blog on blogger. I really don't have time for stuff like this. I don't even have time for fotki as much anymore. Well, not because of lack of time, but lack of energy. I may be anemic. Random thought of the day...moving on...

Well, it's actually 12:59 AM and my nine month anniversary was over about an hour ago. Ok, now it's 1:00 AM (I am a complete night owl). I am surprised at how much my babies have grown over th
e past nine months. The pic right here is my first day,

November 02, 2006. I would have started locing sooner but because I was living in my father's house, he didn't agree with the idea and I wouldn't have his support and I didn't really have the know how at the time to care for my hair. I had a TWA that I was still learning about and getting to know. So I just chilled, til about October when I moved back in with my mother and she supported me. She didn't try to sway my decision like my father did, and she let me do my own thing. And she loves my hair to this very day. She's always bugging me let her do it. But I guess I'm just nervous about letting her touch it, because still, I'm still learning about my locs, even nine months later.
Just a side view of my locs. I love my babies, but it's a LOVE/HATE relationship.

L.A.